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Member Stories
What Unemployment Looks Like for Singles

Christina is a 56-year-old single woman who lives in Bellevue, Washington.  She has had a long and successful property management career, but was laid off in late 2008 when her company cut back on expenses. (She was replaced by a 29-year-old employee.)  For the first few months of unemployment, Christina relaxed and took some time to think about what she wanted to do next.  Unemployment checks were just barely enough to cover her monthly living expenses, but she wasn't too concerned.

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Meet Our Chosen Family. M, 63, and K, 64, have a long history together that has resulted in a wonderful Family of Choice that intends to be together until death does them part.

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My Best Friend Is My Significant Person.  Beatrice, an AtMP member from Washington, DC, wrote to tell us her story. Beatrice is a young 68 year old single woman. She does not have a life partner, and her significant other is not a romantic partner.
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Newsflashes
January 4, 2009
Happy New Year!  We're planning big things for 2009, and looking forward to great success.  You're invited to join us!
 
December 24, 2008
What do people really mean when they talk about commitment?  How do people honor the real commitments in their lives?  Are single women in India really happy?  Essays and letters on these topics are featured in AtMP's latest newsletter.  Plus - talk about commitment - meet the couple who founded AtMP ten years ago, some of the donors who have supported us for a decade, and the volunteers who made everything happen in 2008.  Want to print out the newsletter to read later?  Download the PDF.
 
December 4, 2008
Congratulations to New York Times columnist Gail Collins for shining a big light on singlism, a term coined by Dr. Bella DePaulo (an AtMP member) to describe the social stigma and legal discrimination facing single people, including Homeland Security Secretary-designate Janet Napolitano. Commenting on the Times column, AtMP executive director Nicky Grist concludes "It is time to recognize that being single is not just a phase, and singlism is not a joke."
 
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AtMP in the media

AtMP speaks out in a New York Times opinion piece by Cindy, "Unmarried and Ignored by the GOP."  You can read it here: http://www.nytimes.com/roomfordebate/2012/04/24/are-family-values-outdated/unmarried-and-ignored-by-the-gop

Cindy Butler talks about the implications of the rising rate of singlehood and the declining rate of marriage on "Single- the New Married" on Relationships360 BlogTalkRadio on March 15, 2012. 

"More couples stay happily unmarried" Atlanta Journal-Constitution, March 11, 2012. AtMP Executive Director Cindy Butler addresses the unfair difficulties cohabiting partners face in an effort to care for one another.