Who We Are (and what we think)

Go directly to information about us, or get a general overview below.

The people of AtMP:
Co-founders
Executive Director
Board of Directors
Interns
Volunteers

Our guiding principles:
Mission Statement
Affirmation of Family Diversity
Position on Same-Sex Marriage
Privacy Policy
Frequently Asked Questions

Our publications:
Blog
Newsletters
Annual Reports

 Ways to spread the word:

Email your friends  
Hang a virtual or paper banner
Hand out a brochure

  

Overview:

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The Alternatives to Marriage Project (AtMP) advocates for equality and fairness for unmarried people, including people who are single, choose not to marry, cannot marry, or live together before marriage. We provide support and information for this fast-growing constituency, fight discrimination on the basis of marital status, and educate the public and policymakers about relevant social and economic issues. We believe that marriage is only one of many acceptable family forms, and that society should recognize and support healthy relationships in all their diversity. AtMP is a national 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization.

The Alternatives to Marriage Project is not against marriage. But we believe that unmarried relationships also deserve validation and support. People may be pressured to marry by their families, friends, and communities. They may also face marital status discrimination. We oppose this unfair treatment and advocate for the equal rights of unmarried people. 

Census statistics increasingly demonstrate the importance of unmarried people in America.  Millions of people are not currently in relationships or do not live with their partner, and have no plans to marry. There are many reasons people choose not to get married. Some people, like same-sex couples and those in relationships of more than two people, are not legally allowed to marry. 

The Alternatives to Marriage Project is open to everyone, including singles, couples, married people, people in relationships with more than two people, and people of all genders and sexual orientations. We welcome our married supporters, who are among the many friends, relatives, and allies of unmarried people. 

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Executive Director
Cindy Butler

Board of Directors
Thomas A. Amoroso, MD, MPH  
Kimberly Fox, PhD
Kevin Maillard
Gordon Morris
Ann Schranz, Chair
Rabbi Alissa Wise