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Overview:

The number of unmarried partners living together is skyrocketing. Just a generation or two ago, it was scandalous for an unmarried man and woman to live together. Today, most couples who marry live together first -- "shacking up" has gone mainstream. But that change happened so quickly, it's no wonder things are inconsistent. Some couples find living together is easy. Others find themselves attacked by angry family members, excluded from faith communities, baffled by how to introduce each other, and discriminated against because they're not married. In some places and situations, unmarried partners can share a health insurance policy and get certain legal protections; in other situations, they're considered legal strangers with no rights, even if they've lived together for decades.

This section focuses primarily on different-sex couples, which is what most people think of when they hear about cohabitors. Of course many of the items here are relevant to all kinds of relationships. Those in same-sex relationships will also find uniquely relevant information in the LGBT section.

Here's an alphabetical peek at some of what you'll find...

Books & Links
Our huge collection of the best stuff out there on cohabitation. Send us your additions!

Common Law Marriage
There's a widespread myth that living together for seven years makes you married.  That's not true!  Get the facts here! 

Expert Quotations on Cohabitation
Our collection of quotes on a variety of topics from the many sociologists, psychologists, demographers, and other experts whose work supports the perspective of the Alternatives to Marriage Project.

Frequently Asked Questions
Yes, people really asked us these questions so often, we had to write down our answers.

Legal and Financial Issues
Whether you're living with one partner or many, whether your partnership is same-sex or different-sex, one day you'll have questions. We help you find answers.

Marriage Boycott
Information about the movement of straight couples refusing to marry until gay couples have equal marriage rights.

If you like our own Ten Tips, you'll love these additional resources, support groups and related organizations.

Looking for good, hard numbers about cohabitation and marriage for an article, report, or project? We've got the most up-to-date information.

Ten Ways To Improve Your Chances for a Good Marriage After Cohabitation
Many couples live together because they want to be sure the relationship is working before they say "I do." This list provides our best advice for those cohabitors who want to head to the altar someday.