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Member Stories
What Unemployment Looks Like for Singles

Christina is a 56-year-old single woman who lives in Bellevue, Washington.  She has had a long and successful property management career, but was laid off in late 2008 when her company cut back on expenses. (She was replaced by a 29-year-old employee.)  For the first few months of unemployment, Christina relaxed and took some time to think about what she wanted to do next.  Unemployment checks were just barely enough to cover her monthly living expenses, but she wasn't too concerned.

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Meet Our Chosen Family. M, 63, and K, 64, have a long history together that has resulted in a wonderful Family of Choice that intends to be together until death does them part.

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My Best Friend Is My Significant Person.  Beatrice, an AtMP member from Washington, DC, wrote to tell us her story. Beatrice is a young 68 year old single woman. She does not have a life partner, and her significant other is not a romantic partner.
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Newsflashes
Rights and Responsibilities of Unmarried Parents in CA
There are some special measures unmarried parents must take to preserve legal remedies which may be automatically available to married couples in California.

Read more: http://www.digitaljournal.com/pr/669318#ixzz1sRKmj9LV
 
Today is National Health Care Decisions Day!
Be sure that the decisions that may be made on your behalf are according to your wishes. Even if you think you are protected, you should do an inventory of your documents. Are you prepared?
 
Announcing the AtMP Outreach Contest
We are pleased to announce the ATMP OUTREACH CONTEST!  Help us build the Alternatives to Marriage Project community.  Anyone who brings in 5 new contacts by May 14 will be entered into a drawing for a $100 Amazon Gift Certificate that is good for any purchase on the amazon.com website.
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AtMP in the media

AtMP speaks out in a New York Times opinion piece by Cindy, "Unmarried and Ignored by the GOP."  You can read it here: http://www.nytimes.com/roomfordebate/2012/04/24/are-family-values-outdated/unmarried-and-ignored-by-the-gop

Cindy Butler talks about the implications of the rising rate of singlehood and the declining rate of marriage on "Single- the New Married" on Relationships360 BlogTalkRadio on March 15, 2012. 

"More couples stay happily unmarried" Atlanta Journal-Constitution, March 11, 2012. AtMP Executive Director Cindy Butler addresses the unfair difficulties cohabiting partners face in an effort to care for one another.